In less than a day, I have 2 gal friends who get hurt from guys. They are not into any relationship. And they both like the guys.

Case 1
The guy said he doesn't like my friend. Ok, fine. Life still goes on for my friend. But some how, this guy still shows concern to my friend. He called my friend to see how her life is. And the concern he showed to my friend is already crossing the boundary of what a normal guy friend should give. He will asked questions like "what you do today", "who you go with", "gal or guy", "did he send you back", "why he send you back", etc. Hello, what these? Interrogating my friend? So can any guys out there, tell me what this guy is thinking?

Case 2
The guy is not in Singapore. My friend likes him but think this guy doesn't know about it. So maybe is a one way thingy. My friend asked him whether he is into any relationship anot and he said no. But from friendster, his status has changed from single to into relationship. So things dun tally. But to me, whether to believe what he said or what was seen in the friendster depends on individual. Anything can be lying unless the person says to you right at your face. But is his into any relationship? Nobody knows except himself and the partner.


The similarity between the two guys is they don't really tell the truth. Why can't they be frank to my friends? Or they don't want to hurt my friends directly? Or want to have an alternative for themselves next time?